The Inner Workings Of Attraction – Knowledge Of Attraction Can Lead You To Happiness Today
Attraction in the world of dating is often a mystery to ladies. Most ladies have no idea how attraction really works, or, if they think they DO have an idea, they have it all wrong.
Do you know what attraction really is and how it REALLY works? Do you think that attraction is a choice? What is the POINT of attraction? These are all great questions, and, unfortunately, not questions that we often think about as a woman – most of us take for granted that we know, when we don’t.
Allow me to boil it all down for you into a couple sentences (If you want a GREAT explanation, go see Christian Carter’s Natural and Lasting Attraction Program). attraction exists to assist the reproduction of mankind – obviously. But attraction works on a level of selection that most people don’t even know. Your body is tuned to the alpha man – the male most likely to pass on good, healthy, strong and dominant genes to his children . Remember Darwin’s theory of survival of the fittest? That’s it right there, in a nutshell.
So – perhaps you are wondering why YOU have always been attracted to the bad boy? The bad boy is the one who ACTS like the alpha man ! Many times it’s just a sham, because the bad boys end up treating ladies like dirt, but he gets that initial attraction reaction from you because he seems like an alpha male. There is more on that in the Natural and Lasting Attraction program.
There are MANY ways to spark attraction with a guy – some of them work a LOT better than others, and some of them that ladies seem trained to do from birth are downright WRONG.
One – and only ONE of the myriad ways to spark attraction in a guy is by playing hard to get. Playing hard to get is a classic pattern of behavior that works for several reasons. Some ladies don’t like the idea of “playing hard to get” because it seems manipulative. It seems insincere. It seems like a game, and none of us want to make the dating game even more difficult than it already is.
The thing is, though, that men need to feel attraction and INTEREST in you. And – they even want to have a little fun. Want a guy to think about you constantly? Don’t have sex with him. Be unavailable.
It’s counterintuitive, I know. You think, if I want him to think about me, then I better BE there for him to MISS me when I am not there. Actually, the opposite is true – anticipation can do wonders for attraction. And, being “hard to get” automatically implies your own scarcity, so it increases the rarity factor enhancing your attraction. In other words, you are a hot commodity, and not ready available for the average Wal-Mart shopper.
The key is in holding back a detail in a playful and intentional way at the first opportunity, whether it’s your age, profession, or even your name. Make things up in an obvious way for fun! (I.e. he asks you what you do for a living and you tell him you are a rodeo clown or a ninja assassin). If a guy is relating to you through a puzzle or mystery, he’s HOOKED. Then you have reversed the roles, taken the lead for yourself, and now he is the one wanting something you have – knowledge and information about YOU.
So, if you are interested in attracting a guy or maintaining a relationship with a guy , attraction is certainly something you want to learn about. This article is only the tip of the iceberg – if you really want to master attraction, and then check out Christian Carter’s Natural and Lasting Attraction program.
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